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11. Posted by Cupcake (Travel Guru 8468 posts) 11y

You date bad boys, you marry nice boys...same with men...they have the women they sleep with and the women they take home to mom;)

12. Posted by FionaNZ (Respected Member 903 posts) 11y

Because Nice Boys are Boring Life just wouldn't be the same without a few Bad Boys in the mix..

13. Posted by remarcable (Respected Member 335 posts) 11y

There is no such thing as a good or bad boy/girl. It's all a "front"- masking their flaws or insecurities.

Like Chris Rock said " We are all liars. When we meet someone, they are not meet you! They are meeting your representative!"

You are right Lisa. No rush, enjoy being single. You will have a 'HELLA' good time! I know I am.;)

M.

14. Posted by lil j (Travel Guru 1303 posts) 11y

As far as i can see single is better, its sooo much less hassle, you only have yourself to rely on.

Don't you love dates for the reason that ppl are trying to impress you...i always just laugh. Ive got bored of all that already...i just want someone who is just as up-front as me! I haven't got time to mess about anymore...got better things to be doing with my time!

15. Posted by abcdf (Full Member 557 posts) 11y

i havent been on too many dates. because the few that i have been on were bad. i dont want to say any more than that. the last guy i was on a date with thought he was gods gift to women, enuf said about him. its kind of funny i feel like its so ritualistic sometimes, the whole courting thing. i dont like it.

hmm. what would be your perfect date? i tried to think of one but i couldnt. it would just involve some chemistry... at least. i dont know about the rest... i just want to find someone who gets me... (jerry maguire). is that so much to ask.

single life is nice. i do what i want when i want it. it sounds selfish but its fun for right now. i enjoy my life and the goods that comes with it. it is freeing.

but this world is made for couples, (sex and the city, the season finale, carrie is having lunch with her old boss and chooses the couples lunch), taxes, finances, and you heal alot faster: i think its because you build up immunities

16. Posted by remarcable (Respected Member 335 posts) 11y

Yeah well, dating is a game. Once people realize that, they are better off.

M.

17. Posted by abcdf (Full Member 557 posts) 11y

Quoting remarcable

Yeah well, dating is a game. Once people realize that, they are better off.

M.

Game Over! i guess i dont want to play games anymore. i understand that it is the chase that is fun, but i like what i like and i dont want to have to chase after it. cant it be like "romeo and juliet" at the ball and time just stops when they finally see each other in the midst of a crowd.

18. Posted by remarcable (Respected Member 335 posts) 11y

Quoting lovelee

Quoting remarcable

Yeah well, dating is a game. Once people realize that, they are better off.

M.

Game Over! i guess i dont want to play games anymore. i understand that it is the chase that is fun, but i like what i like and i dont want to have to chase after it. cant it be like "romeo and juliet" at the ball and time just stops when they finally see each other in the midst of a crowd.

LOL. In the risk of sounding like dr. phil. There is more to the "game" than the chase or hunt. The mental and physical aspect. Are you ready to take on the responsbiity? Are u secure with yourself. When you fail, are u strong enough to learn and move on?

Nothing in life is easy. Nothing important is. If thats the case, whats the satisfaction in that?

M.

19. Posted by arancia (Inactive 426 posts) 11y

Lovelee

i think we should stay single! That is until we find the "one" or the "one" finds us! (pfft..like thats ever gonna happen! ok i'm so not being the glass is half empty )

I just recently had a date like thing with a 'nice guy' too, he asked me out afterwards..via text message. Even though he was alrightish lookin i had to say no cus he was boring! And as Mr Isa said (from thread 'Calling all male human beings to answer') to be able to hold a conversation of interest is vital and crucial in any relationship (ok not in those words exactly), but i agree with him.

I have to agree being single is good fun because you dont feel guilty when flirting with guys.

However, on the other hand, how i wish it could be just like Romeo and Juliet too!

Dr. Phil..sorry.. Remarcable (guy who likes the feet ) how are you finding the single life?

20. Posted by mtlchica (Respected Member 922 posts) 11y

Yeah dating is tough....I don't care if they are blind dates, regular dates, whatever, it's all a show (by the way great Chris Rock quote, Marc/Dr. Phil! ). But the best thing about dating (besides meeting the "one," anyways) is having funny stories to remember when they're done! The worst date of my life: Having the guy ask me for money to buy beer at the corner store "for later"...wink...(ick!), check out a poster of a strip club and say "I've seen better," grab my ass numerous times and ask me for drugs. At the time, not so fun, but now, all I can do is laugh thinking about it!

Enjoy the single life! Because I'm sure it won't be half as fun when we're 92 ;)