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Your bf/gf cheated you, will u give him/her another chance?

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21. Posted by Cupcake (Travel Guru 8468 posts) 11y

Just trying to spread my merry little ray of sunshine ;)

22. Posted by AlexT (Respected Member 245 posts) 11y

I agree with Fiona, we all do stupid things in the name of love...

And keep looking for thant inner Elf... he's in there somewhere!

23. Posted by abcdf (Full Member 557 posts) 11y

I hate cheaters. I feel like it is so selfish and disgusting, and then I cheated on my bf. I broke up with him before it happened, but I still felt so guilty. I still care for my ex, but I can never face him or tell him any of this. The breakup was longtime coming, but it was def the wrong way to do it.

24. Posted by Isadora (Travel Guru 13926 posts) 11y

As the old saying goes, Lisa...

Live and learn!

25. Posted by james (Travel Guru 4136 posts) 11y

Quoting lovelee

I hate cheaters. I feel like it is so selfish and disgusting, and then I cheated on my bf. I broke up with him before it happened, but I still felt so guilty. I still care for my ex, but I can never face him or tell him any of this. The breakup was longtime coming, but it was def the wrong way to do it.

If you broke up with him (boyfriend) before it happened (the cheating) then how is that cheating?

Did you forget to tell him

26. Posted by lil j (Travel Guru 1303 posts) 11y

I agree with you James-if you werent together at the time, although i can relate a bit-i wasnt seeing my 'ex' (technically he wasn't an ex but its rather confusing!) but anyway when i was with someone else i couldnt face telling him that, that i had been seeing someone-he would prob be upset-altho we weren't together, but he would'nt admit that he was upset-it's really weird! I mean i would tell him but if the subject never come up then i wouldnt bring it up sort of thing.

I'm still working on this one! I feel like carrie bradshaw (Sex and the City)

27. Posted by Cupcake (Travel Guru 8468 posts) 11y

Quoting james

If you broke up with him (boyfriend) before it happened (the cheating) then how is that cheating?

Did you forget to tell him

(After taking shower from night out with man number 2)
To Man number 1: Oh yeah, I forgot to tell you...we broke up last night...around 8 pm.......;)

28. Posted by Gelli (Travel Guru 2457 posts) 11y

Or you could always just find someone the two of you share....

I was going to say that if you were sensible and stuck with sheep (or your own choice of 4 legged friend) in the first place, you would never get in that situation. And if you did, you can kill them and eat the evidence. And the really scary thing is i'm actually being serious.

29. Posted by yolandac8 (Respected Member 159 posts) 11y

Again it depends on the circomstances, and one never knows what his/her reaction will be until it happens, but I would say no. Two days ago I saw a really stupid movie on tv in which something very true was said (and that we usually tend to forget):

"You can't love someone who lies you".

I personally agree with the statement. It happened to me once, somebody cheated on me, I went on with the relationship, but the trust was lost forever, it was never the same, and finally we end up breaking up.
If it ever happens to me again, I wouldn't give him another chance, under no circonstances. I am in a relationship right now, and I love my boyfriend so much, but if he evers cheates on me (and not only in a sexual way, you can also cheat without having sex), I wouldn't continue my relationship with him.

30. Posted by Isadora (Travel Guru 13926 posts) 11y

Quoting Gelli

Or you could always just find someone the two of you share....

I was going to say that if you were sensible and stuck with sheep (or your own choice of 4 legged friend) in the first place, you would never get in that situation. And if you did, you can kill them and eat the evidence. And the really scary thing is i'm actually being serious.

So now we know what really happened to Dolly!!! (Or to Dolly's friends who were suppose to meet up with your along the way...)

I must admit, Rich, you have a very interesting take on relationships!