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11. Posted by coldwarspy (Travel Guru 1108 posts) 10y

yeah mate sorry - cancel the trip

12. Posted by Twinkle (Travel Guru 1112 posts) 10y

Oh my God, this is a delicate one...Normally I tell people to be self centred but in this case you cant do this, theres a baby involved now so that has to come first. Ultimatley it would be really shallow of you to skip off around the world whilst she puts up with the varicose veins and morning sickness so you know she needs you and you have to face up to your resonsibilities. However I dont think you should totally miss out your trip as I think you need that opportunity to sort your head out, decided how you feel about your relationship with the girl and if you have a child on the way this will be your last opportunity for a while to go off travelling on your own and do as you please. I say cut your trip down to like 4 months or something (depends when this baby is going to arrive?) as Im a big believer in not temptng fate, go and do your thing, come back, see how you feel about the whole situation, then look forward to becoming a dad!Really hope it all turns out ok for you all!However on the other hand....this is something you need to talk to your girlfriend about and make a decision that suits you both.....Good luck!

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