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11. Posted by harolds (Budding Member 11 posts) 10y

what she needs is a ride over i have enough money to get her e visa but not a flight can anyone help her???? because she has worked all her life and had terrible people steal everything she had, she has no money for the pland and she is a sweet lady with class and she does love me so much she is willing to make her home with me

12. Posted by wouterrr (Travel Guru 3379 posts) 10y

Quoting harolds

what she needs is a ride over i have enough money to get her e visa but not a flight can anyone help her???? because she has worked all her life and had terrible people steal everything she had, she has no money for the pland and she is a sweet lady with class and she does love me so much she is willing to make her home with me

You must be feeling pretty desperate (no offence) to ask money from strangers on a travelrelated forum. Sorry but I don't think people here are able to help you (as they need their hard-earned money for their own travelpurposes). Maybe you can borrow some money from friends/family or for instance sell your car if you have one. And if there are people who are willing to help you, the internet should not be the way. All the best to you and I hope everything will work out well....

13. Posted by karazyal (Travel Guru 1591 posts) 10y

Quoting harolds

may as well drop it cause i get replies that have nothing to do with this and all i was asking for was would someone with a heart help her to come here? that was all and why cant ppl see the question? do i need to beg? and call them God? or cant some people read? thanks

Do you expect someone to buy her a ticket?

Do you expect someone to give you advice?

Do you want someone to escort her to the U.S. with a plane ticket that YOU pay for?

Contact the nearest immigration office for specific requirements.

Buy a plane ticket to MNL, meet your lady, and BOTH of you fly back together.

Keep everything in your own name for at least 5 years after you marry!

14. Posted by harolds (Budding Member 11 posts) 10y

no i do not expect you to fly here here or qrite a check as God will move upon the right person at the right time and i do not mean to upset anyone at all
just that there will be a miracle soon and thank you for your wonderful reply as i appreciate everybody for thier wonderful support knowing that love does go on
She believes in miracles too as i do because there are many everyday including the iraq baby with bona spifida, i believe miracles happen in many wayts we do not even know about
please do not think we are barmy but we are believers in human kindness and love one another too

15. Posted by james (Travel Guru 4136 posts) 10y

Harolds, can't you raise the money somehow and transfer it over to her? Seems easier than waiting for a miracle.

16. Posted by harolds (Budding Member 11 posts) 10y

Hi James thank you for the reply and what has happened is my fiancee has lost all of her money to unscrupulous husband before she met me and as for me, she knows im retired on social security benefits which just is not enough to be able to save but enough for the both of us to live on but because the hurricanes had a domino effect on cost of living in the usa which takes all of my income to survive on these day but when she does go to work here, it will not only be so much easier on both of us together as man and wife should that occur and she knows i will never hold secrets from her so therefore God will make a way foor us by way of the miracle we believe in
Thank you because this gave me an opportunity to prove that we are honest and sincere in our ewndeavor to be productive and right standing husband and wife for the world to see
God bless you all

17. Posted by james (Travel Guru 4136 posts) 10y

Harolds, if I was in your situation I'd sell my possessions (my computer for a start) and anything else to raise the funds.

This woman that you are going to marry, have you actually met her?

18. Posted by wouterrr (Travel Guru 3379 posts) 10y

Quoting james

Harolds, if I was in your situation I'd sell my possessions (my computer for a start) and anything else to raise the funds.

I agree with that!!! If you really want her to come over, you should do that!!!! I think its more important to have her with you then all the material things.....

19. Posted by harolds (Budding Member 11 posts) 10y

James? yes I did meet her and she has been working the same job since 1994 and still currently working there at the golf course all those years and just wants the joy of life with freedom here in the USA with me
thank you and i understand your point fully but i have minimum personal possesions for a start and computers here are so cheap, what could i get from it? $2.00 usd? please sir I am having enough difficulties from well meaning people and airfare alone is much higher than what people think it is and certainly not $2.00 usd with excepting the curious ones who are always asking but not helping as thier hearts may be too hard to respect a couples wishes for a lifetime of happiness brought on by a loving sweet, generous kind soul who wants a couple to be blessed without being so materialistic which poisons society in a negative way
Thank you sir and that is a great thought
God bless you and loves you

20. Posted by tway (Travel Guru 7273 posts) 10y

I'm a firm believer that God (Yaweh, Budda, Krishna, take your pick) helps those who helps themselves. There must be a way you can try to raise the funds, Harrold? Perhaps a fundraising event, a bake sale, a "lottery"-type thing where you sell tickets to win a selection of items. I'm sure you can find a lot of helpful information on-line that will guide you on how to start. Have you considered taking up a small part-time job to raise some extra cash?

I remember reading about couples who adopted babies from overseas, and the efforts they put in to raise the money for the whole process. I think you'll be waiting a long, long time for the money to just "appear". There are options available to you, you just have to look. Good luck!