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1. Posted by treefinger (Budding Member 3 posts) 10y

When I have talked to guys who have been or lived in south america, eastern europe, or asia most seem to end up telling me the same thing. They end up telling me that the women in those regions have a better attitude, and are more feminine than women in america. I have heard this so many times and it always made me wonder if it was true or if it was just their imagination. So I am curious as to what you guys here think about this.

2. Posted by rasberries (Inactive 154 posts) 10y

I can't believe that this is actually posted. Yes I understand this
it what you've heard but c'mon..

Here in North America and developed English speaking countries(Australia,New zealand and UK) have alot more freedoms than countries where woman are treated second class to men. Where women want to get with North American men to get out of the countries to come to America or whatever.

3. Posted by Isadora (Travel Guru 13926 posts) 10y

Simply put - the grass is always (perceived to be) greener on the other side of the fence.

I have heard the same thing from women about Spanish, Eurpoean, Asian and Australian men. I think it has more to do with the "exotic-ness" of the women rather than the women, or men, themselves. There are many foreign men and women out there that find the American opposite sex very attractive because of the attitudes.

4. Posted by treefinger (Budding Member 3 posts) 10y

I can't believe that this is actually posted.

- I see....so if there is something that contradicts your notions of how the world is= bad? I posted it because I have heard it said so many times that I think it is a valid topic to discuss. This is also why I said "question FOR MEN". Because I knew there would be a woman like yourself that would get all defensive.

Yes I understand this
it what you've heard but c'mon..

- I NEVER said that I agreed with it. I am posting because I wanted to see what other people think about this and if they think it it true or not and why.

5. Posted by herront (Budding Member 45 posts) 10y

Like he said, i think its just because the women here have a freedom of choice and well the eastern europeans and asians aren't used to this, Therefore not finding it very attractive (i presume) where as if you ask someone from america or australia or the uk they would probably say they prefer a woman who does what she wants when she wants (well i prefer someone who is a free spirit, then someone who is pretty much a slave)

6. Posted by zachary (Respected Member 471 posts) 10y

women in those regions are more prone to be housewifes, and part of their mentality is to attempt to make the man of the house comfortable and happy, for most part from what i've seen from living in asia it is totally true

american chicks suck ass!

7. Posted by J-wal (Budding Member 28 posts) 10y

My fiance doesn't cook or clean. Not there is anything wrong with that, but I do it!!! This is also the case with some of my friends. The ladies are messy party animals that don't want to do anything. The boyfriend is the clean organized one who is not lazy enough to cook. A lot of women here in the US never wear dresses. Dresses are usually associated with being feminine. My point is that my girls that I know aren't very feminine unfortunately. I did have a girl friend previous that was Korean. Even when I was like 17 she offered to do my laundry and cook for me. I was just like no its ok I will do it!! Totally different women!!

8. Posted by Purdy (Travel Guru 3546 posts) 10y

Just reading this post as l am taking a break from a major house clean!! Clearing out each room and cleaning from top to bottom - reckon it will take a few more weeks to finish!!

Im really lazy but it gets to a point where l HAVE to do it!! I do the bare minimum - run the vaccum over the floor make sure the dishes are done and laundry (though l dont iron the way my mother does she takes a big pile on a sunday night and ploughs through them!!)

ANYWAY - surely it depends on human nature - ok in other cultures its the norm for the men to be the bread winners and woman to mind the house and kiddies - but the world is changing - woman have a careers too and after a hard day in the office l cannot come home and start scrubbing floors and being Mrs Mop!!! So my other half will get a dinner made - l enjoy cooking luckily for him (and although he tries hes awful and leaves an awful mess in the kitchen!). My sister works but is VERY house proud and has 2 kids she will come home mop floors scrub bathrooms and clean all evening if she has too! Its just our personalities!!

9. Posted by TeflonCDN (Full Member 123 posts) 10y

I've never found a servile attitude to be an attractive quality in a woman. I left a girlfriend because she obtained way to much satisfaction from trying to please me.

Strong, dominant, independant is the only way to go for me. If you want something to obey... get a dog!

10. Posted by Cupcake (Travel Guru 8468 posts) 10y

Quoting zachary

women in those regions are more prone to be housewifes, and part of their mentality is to attempt to make the man of the house comfortable and happy, for most part from what i've seen from living in asia it is totally true

american chicks suck ass!

very charming....