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21. Posted by Rraven (Travel Guru 5924 posts) 10y

then you could ask him if he was gay and why he wanted you !?!

[ Edit: Edited at Jul 5, 2006 1:57 AM by Rraven ]

22. Posted by Jennifer G (Budding Member 725 posts) 10y

Maybe he needs a heterosexual relationship as cover while practising as homosexual.....he did mention about his colleague

23. Posted by Rraven (Travel Guru 5924 posts) 10y

how long have you known him ? are you his only friend ?

24. Posted by mikeyBoab (Travel Guru 5077 posts) 10y

Then tell him it was a test, and he's failed.

25. Posted by tway (Travel Guru 7273 posts) 10y

Are you wanting to stay friends with him regarless? If he's as odd as you say, and he makes you uncomfortable, maybe you should consider not talking to him at all anymore...

26. Posted by Jennifer G (Budding Member 725 posts) 10y

I knew him since year 2000, and none of my course mates wanna stay in contact with him at all, I don't mind being his only friend, but I don't know how to tell him about his "freak behaviour"

27. Posted by Isadora (Travel Guru 13926 posts) 10y

Quoting Jennifer G

ps - he does has chestwig, which he thinks is SEXY

Now that's just scary in and of itself!!! (Is it made of raccoon? I think one went missing not long ago...)

I would suggest inviting him out with you and another female friend, in hopes that he would turn his attentions toward her... But, from the way it sounds, your female friend would probably stop being your friend.

I agree with Q, about talking with him. If he still persists, then he's not just an admirer, he's on the edge of being a stalker. And, how will he react when you do start dating someone else? If you do choose to talk with him, just make it somewhere you feel safe just in case he doesn't take information as well as he should. ;)

28. Posted by Jase007 (Travel Guru 8870 posts) 10y

Quoting Jennifer G

I knew him since year 2000, and none of my course mates wanna stay in contact with him at all, I don't mind being his only friend, but I don't know how to tell him about his "freak behaviour"

Just tell him outright, honesty and straight to the point is always the best. If you dress things up too much the real meaning may get lost.

29. Posted by tway (Travel Guru 7273 posts) 10y

I'll third that. If you want someone to know exactly what you mean, you have to tell them exactly what you mean. Sometimes it's really hard to do, but if he's lookign for something more than friendship he may well hang on every ambiguos word. That isn't fair for either of you.

30. Posted by Jennifer G (Budding Member 725 posts) 10y

He asked me to "try" him out before I "failed" him, and he thinks that he is my "Mr Perfect". I have blocked him in MSN, and he wrote me and email saying "How could you ruined my life this way?" HELP ME!!!!!!!!