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11. Posted by Purdy (Travel Guru 3546 posts) 9y

I think Wouterr has hit the nail on the head - real friends and family that is what you should worry about not some faceless stranger on the internet (although you may be very lucky to make a few good friends over the internet and that is something to smile about!)

Hate is a very strong word to use Mel (l know you werent being overly serious (l hope) but l just dont like the word Hate being used insignificantly)

Heather

12. Posted by james (Travel Guru 4136 posts) 9y

Quoting Elnaz

Hello to all of my dear friends
I am a little sad because i dont like any person be angry and sad of me but i think a person is very very very very angry of me ,I dont know why?
I am sure i did not do any wrong thing, He is saying me , i am a little weird, again i dont know why?
can you guide me, what should i do ?
Thanks of all
Regards

He is obviously wrong; you're more than just a "little weird"

I say that you should file for divorce.

13. Posted by Isadora (Travel Guru 13926 posts) 9y

Quoting Mel.

If there is any member of TP who is liked by everybody, would u tell us who u are.

Me!

Case in point - everyone who disliked/hated me is now a non-member (wocca, massageuk, jackboy, zoom... Okay, zoom just went away by himself.) But, I think there's a pattern forming here...

14. Posted by wouterrr (Travel Guru 3379 posts) 9y

people tend to like me too isadora. we could be best friends

15. Posted by james (Travel Guru 4136 posts) 9y

Quoting Mel.

I dont think it is even possible, to be liked, by everybody.
If there is any member of TP who is liked by everybody, would u tell us who u are. I already know, that I will hate u, because of jealousy.;)

Oh it's possible Mel. I'm what you might term a "classic example".

16. Posted by Herr Bert (Moderator 1384 posts) 9y

In the post of Elnaz I don't see she means someone here, but in her every day life.

If it is a good friend you obviously want to settle things, and try to talk to eachother, sometimes it helps not to start talking right away but to wait a little until the situation is cooled down a little. Maybe a mutual friend can try to find out, what he thinks you did/say, that made him react in this way.

Sometimes, you just need to accept that you can not get along with everybody in the way you wish you could. Sometimes people are just too different.

17. Posted by Hien (Moderator 3906 posts) 9y

Quoting Isadora

Me!

Case in point - everyone who disliked/hated me is now a non-member (wocca, massageuk, jackboy, zoom... Okay, zoom just went away by himself.) But, I think there's a pattern forming here...

A non-member - that's what you'll become if you dislike/hate Isadora.
Don't mess with her!

18. Posted by Mel. (Travel Guru 4567 posts) 9y

Quoting Isadora

Quoting Mel.

If there is any member of TP who is liked by everybody, would u tell us who u are.

Me!

Case in point - everyone who disliked/hated me is now a non-member (wocca, massageuk, jackboy, zoom... Okay, zoom just went away by himself.) But, I think there's a pattern forming here...

Zoom is gone!!!
Weeeee!!!!
But maybe he is lurking, and will now chase me around TP hurling abuse.

19. Posted by Mel. (Travel Guru 4567 posts) 9y

Quoting Isadora

Case in point - everyone who disliked/hated me is now a non-member (wocca, massageuk, jackboy, zoom... Okay, zoom just went away by himself.) But, I think there's a pattern forming here...

What are your getting rid of them techniques Isadora?

20. Posted by Elnaz (Inactive 296 posts) 9y

thanks of all
Actually , all of you helped me very well, your sentences are very great helpful for me.
Thanks Dear Gretchen,yes you tell right :
If they are not a person i consider a friend, then their opinion should not matter to me as long as i am happy with myself .

Thanks Dear tway ,you guid me very well too with this sentence that
it's part of life. We have to learn to accept it as fact and not let it bother us.

and Thank you very much beerman, for your advice, you said me Live as i wish, and treat others as i would have them treat me.

Dear Mel , i must think about your speech , you said that you think, the thing to do, is talk more with the people i find easy to talk with, and less with the others. but thanks.

Wouter,thanks , yes it is true that is the most important that i find love with family and real friends, but it is not important for me to be liked by everyone also, there is difference between to hate and dontlike,for example i dont like you but i dont hate you also so it was not important if he doesnt like me but it is very important for me that hate me.
i hope you could understand ,dear Wouter.

but you, James, i dont get married, and i will not get married at all too,so there is not any divorce for me :)

Thanks of all
Regards