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21. Posted by Trace88 (Budding Member 26 posts) 9y

A different story today...

God a day can do so much....was finalising the last plans of when I arrive in Sydney and then he tells me he has just started seeing someone!! Why he didn't tell me earlier is beyond me! :( So kinda mending a brokenheart ...absoultely gutted more than anything....he says that I can still stay at his as his girlfriend doesn't mind....he doesn't think that I Mind!!!

Hopefully others are having more luck than I am......

22. Posted by mikeyBoab (Travel Guru 5077 posts) 9y

Quoting Trace88

A different story today...

God a day can do so much....was finalising the last plans of when I arrive in Sydney and then he tells me he has just started seeing someone!! Why he didn't tell me earlier is beyond me! :( So kinda mending a brokenheart ...absoultely gutted more than anything....he says that I can still stay at his as his girlfriend doesn't mind....he doesn't think that I Mind!!!

Hopefully others are having more luck than I am......

Ouch. Sorry Tracy. Don't stay at his . . .

23. Posted by tway (Travel Guru 7273 posts) 9y

Aw, Tracy - that's terrible! Not very nice of him at all. I agree with Mikey - don't stay at his place. In fact, try avoiding him altogether. You'll have a better time all on your own - and broken hearts need time to heal. The distraction of travelling could work wonders...

Best of luck to you - and have a wonderful trip! You deserve it!

24. Posted by Trace88 (Budding Member 26 posts) 9y

Thank you to both of you. I won't be staying at his but I will be in Manley meeting with him and mates who I also met while travelling. I know not a wise idea but if I don't do that I will be kicking myself but seeing him one last time could possibly help!

Advice to all don't base your travel plans on a guy like I have!!! It gets easier but until I move away from Oz I will enjoy myself even more!

Tway, Im heading to Canada in August. Looking forward to that!

TrAce

25. Posted by james (Travel Guru 4136 posts) 9y

Quoting Trace88

Thank you to both of you. I won't be staying at his but I will be in Manley meeting with him and mates who I also met while travelling. I know not a wise idea but if I don't do that I will be kicking myself but seeing him one last time could possibly help!

Advice to all don't base your travel plans on a guy like I have!!! It gets easier but until I move away from Oz I will enjoy myself even more!

Tway, Im heading to Canada in August. Looking forward to that!

TrAce

Catch up with your mates, but why waste time seeing this bloke? Chances are his new girlfriend will be with him anyway. No good can come of this.

26. Posted by mikeyBoab (Travel Guru 5077 posts) 9y

Yep, agree with James completely.

I have no idea how you're feeling right now, probably hurts like hell. Sounds like you're wanting to see him again but as James says, no good will come of it. Forget him, contact your mates seperately. It doesn't feel like it right now but time is undoubtedly the greatest healer AND YOU WILL BE FINE.

In the meantime, spend time with friends, get it off your chest. Failing that, feel free to log onto TP and have a good old rant.

27. Posted by tway (Travel Guru 7273 posts) 9y

I agree - stay away from him, if only to begin getting over everything. Seeing him will probably just make you feel miserable and uncomfortable. As Mikey says, spend time enjoying the place and your friends and talk it out whenever you need to. It will be hard, but it will get better.

What cities are you visiting in Canada? I'll help you out with anything I can!

28. Posted by Trace88 (Budding Member 26 posts) 9y

I am due in Manly in the next two days...the phrase "crapping it" comes into my mind....I'm splurging a little as checked myself into a hotel...some @#$^($ stole my bag out of a hostel in Surfers Paradise...so all my journals and photos gone....damn u!

Hopefully Manly will bring me more luck, I'm still meeting with him but there will be a bunch of girlfriends looking after me - one in particular is not letting me make an idiot of myself...but trust me I will...

I leave Sydney to go to New Zealand in a couple of weeks....then Fiji before I hit Canada, I head to Vancouver and surrounding cities then to Edmonton then fly to Toronto and surrounding cities before going back to my normal life in UK in September....however I think i may move to Melbourne...or Sydney if I like the place!

Updates to you all soon! X

29. Posted by kruzinkiwi (Budding Member 152 posts) 9y

yes i think it will work as long as you dont mind him banging others while your not there

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