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1. Posted by jadember (First Time Poster 1 posts) 9y

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I am traveling to Thailand solo in October 2007 for three weeks. Along the way, I would like to get some good advice on safe-social places to stay, and I would also like to meet up with fellow travelers along the way. Does anyone have advice on how to make connections with people while traveling solo? I am not all that interested in joining a tour, but would like to have dinner with people a few days a week just to share experiences, etc. I am concerned about safety as a 23 year old female. Looking forward to the trip, but pretty nervous about it too! Thanks!

2. Posted by Mel. (Travel Guru 4567 posts) 9y

Hello Jadember:)

I think u will have little or no safety problems in Thailand.
It is the only country in the world, where I have never experience sexual harassment. Well not from the Thai men anyway.
Any hotel should be OK, as regards your physical safety. However, be careful with your valuables. Dont leave them in your room, when u go out.

As regards people to have dinner with a few times a week, u will meet plenty of people when u are travelling. If u want u can post a thread in the travelling companians forum and maybe there will be others looking for the same.

Mel

3. Posted by bex76 (Moderator 3719 posts) 9y

if you head to the backpacker areas in bangkok you should find it quite easy to hook up with other travellers, and likewise if you stay in backpacker accommodation throughout Thailand you will come across loads of other travellers.
The best places to go to in bangkok are the khao san road and soi rambuttri areas, which have loads of backpacker gueshouses, cafes and bars. I stayed at a place called 'My House' on soi rambuttri and although i wasn't travelling alone it was obviously the kind of place where it would be easy to meet other people. there is a sociable lounge/restaurant area and movies are shown in the evenings. there are several guest houses of this nature all around the Soi Rambuttri area.
Just beware of scams in bangkok - if a tuk-tuk or taxi driver tells you the place you want to go is 'closed' it's probably not true so stand your ground; also before you accept a cab ride make sure the taxi driver agrees to use the meter.
I agree with Mel - Thailand is pretty safe so just use your common sense like you would anywhere else.
I'm sure you will have a great time as Thailand is fab! :)

4. Posted by wildfk (Respected Member 459 posts) 9y

A little oblique but there's stuff here you might find useful on your first trip......

Here are 20 things to think about when visiting Thailand…

1. Bring a cell phone “unblocked” and buy a Thai SIM card for it on arrival, they’re cheap (apprx. 250 baht) and include some credit already on them - e.g. - International calls to UK are about 5 - 8baht per min…

2. Money - Bring ATM and/or credit cards. - check fees and tell your bank your are going abroad. - Take Travellers cheques only as back-up. Bring very little cash (Baht) – you tend to get a better rate of exchange here than any home country. Just enough to get you out of the airport.

3. Bring very few clothes – they are so cheap here and you’ll only bring stuff that is too warm.

4. Very little luggage – this makes you more mobile if you need to be and less vulnerable to taxi touts and undesirable men….Before you go home you can buy any extra luggage (cheap) to take souvenirs etc.

5. Internet access is everywhere – even on the beach… you can get all your photos copied to CD - If you have a lap-top you can connect it (broadband) at most cafes.

6. Food - Thai food is very unlikely to give you food poisoning but can contain more chillies than you ever thought possible….Street food is usually safe (and delicious!), check for numbers of customers and general looks of the stall. Western (“farang”) food is much more likely to give you food poisoning – fridges are not part of Thai cooking lore yet…beware of Western Fast Food outlets and hotel buffets - food that has been out for over an hour or so. Thailand is not used to fridges/chill-serve etc.

7. Always carry a pack of tissues - they don’t supply free tissues in most loos!

8. Drink bottled water - not tap water. Even consider not brushing your teeth with tap water. Ice is usually safe in drinks and for anything else.

9. Use common safety sense – it is easy to relax too much here…when it comes to petty crime the rate is certainly lower than in places like the UK Spain etc…but every country has its share of con-men and psychopaths…..

10. Don’t be afraid to go to Pattaya – it is the sex capital of Thailand but they don’t jump out at single women and couples and it has good, cheap hotels, shopping and food. Not a bad place to start off for Koh Chang, Koh Samet or Cambodia.

11. Bring an international driving licence – although most national ones are accepted by motorbike and car hire companies and anyone else who wants to hire you something….you may not be insured without an IDL! In Thailand they drive on the left - cars are Right-hand-drive. However driving is really only for the experienced. Be especially careful on a motorbike - Samui has the highest accident rate in Thailand.

12. Public transport is cheap. Planes, Trains, Buses, Minibuses, Taxis, from town to town. If you’re in a minibus or taxi, tell the driver you’ll tip him if he keeps the speed below 90/100 kmph! National speed limit is 90kph (120 on motorways)

13. Around Bkk try to use meter taxis with the meter on...it’ll be cheaper than the tuk-tuks. Take a tuk-tuk once for the experience then use meter taxis. Don’t let the drivers take you out of your way...they’ll try to take you to some store where they get commission.

14. Medical - Check out a few “jabs & medications” – don’t bother with the malaria ones – too heavy! You can get tetanus or rabies here if you’re bitten by a dog - it’s cheap. Most medicines (including antibiotics) can be bought over the counter without prescription and are cheap. A pharmacist will give you what he considers right for your symptoms but you get just as easily see a doctor at a local clinic for a couple of hundred baht. They usually speak a little English.

15. Check up on Thai manners and customs – this will earn you more respect from the locals. - Keep up some dress sense – how you dress in Thailand is quite important. Don’t go topless without checking out if it’s acceptable where you are – usually it’s frowned upon. You’ll notice that Thai women (even sex workers) are very modest in public –they usually swim fully clothed.

16. Check out table manners – Thais tend to eat from communal dishes in the centre of the table – don’t pour everything onto your own plate!

17. Don’t knock the royal family – even in jest.

18. Body language - Don’t point your feet at people – the body is seen as hierarchical and the feet are the lowest part and should not be waved about (this is like a “fingers up” sign. Before entering someone’s home you must take off your shoes; this also applies to some shops and businesses. - Never take a shoe off and wave it at someone – this could lead to violence.
On the other hand it is impolite to touch people on the head.

19. It’s not necessary to “Wai” people - the Thai greeting - as you’ll probably get it wrong. If they Wai you, you might wai back.

20. Remember, this is the Land of Smiles and you will find everything goes much better when you have a smile on your face - whatever the situation