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61. Posted by kombizz (Full Member 1416 posts) 8y

Quoting opospa

I am RCA

I know Jason from RCA.
Jason is a real gentleman and always pays for his girlfriends.
He lives in Hong Kong and manages his father's business. Once he told me "if I invite a lady for a dinner, I should pay, because at the end of day I would like to share your bed with her. So always pay".
Unfortunately I disagree with him totally.
Some times I would like to go out with a young lady to be simply with her for fun, nothing more.
Anyhow I guess few people of RCA, like Jason spends more for only one thing!

62. Posted by opospa (Travel Guru 1837 posts) 8y

Quoting kombizz

Quoting opospa

I am RCA

I know Jason from RCA.
Jason is a real gentleman and always pays for his girlfriends.
He lives in Hong Kong and manages his father's business. Once he told me "if I invite a lady for a dinner, I should pay, because at the end of day I would like to share your bed with her. So always pay".
Unfortunately I disagree with him totally.
Some times I would like to go out with a young lady to be simply with her for fun, nothing more.
Anyhow I guess few people of RCA, like Jason spends more for only one thing!

What is RCA for you?

63. Posted by mikeyBoab (Travel Guru 5077 posts) 8y

Quoting kombizz

Once he told me "if I invite a lady for a dinner, I should pay, because at the end of day I would like to share your bed with her. thing!

That's disgusting! Tell him to use his own bed.

64. Posted by outdooren (Full Member 86 posts) 8y

If you don't want to pay, you should make this clear before you go on the date just so you're on the same page

65. Posted by kombizz (Full Member 1416 posts) 8y

Quoting outdooren

If you don't want to pay, you should make this clear before you go on the date just so you're on the same page

I reckon you lost the point.
I wanted to take her to a Persian Restaurant with reasonable price, and I wanted to pay the whole payment. Instead she suggested to to have a vegetarian one. I did not argue with her as I wanted to make a good impression. She took me to an expensive restuarant on top floor of a tall building.
Then I expected her to contribute part of the bill. That's all.

66. Posted by Yeah (Budding Member 67 posts) 8y

Quoting kombizz

Quoting opospa

I am RCA

I know Jason from RCA.
Jason is a real gentleman and always pays for his girlfriends.
He lives in Hong Kong and manages his father's business. Once he told me "if I invite a lady for a dinner, I should pay, because at the end of day I would like to share your bed with her. So always pay".
Unfortunately I disagree with him totally.
Some times I would like to go out with a young lady to be simply with her for fun, nothing more.
Anyhow I guess few people of RCA, like Jason spends more for only one thing!

I would disagree with Jason. I dont know how to say this without sounding like a douche bag, but i know my way with girls quite well.

I like to pay if i've known the girl for a while, but i never buy drinks for girls in bars or on first dates and such. Very few girls mind paying their share, and some girls just like the attention of getting men to buy them drinks in bars and such, and blows of the buyer as another insecure guy trying to pay for her to like him. And i dont see the point in spending money on girls you just met and dont know.

But there's a thin line between not paying for her and coming of as just cheap. If there's a five dollar bill i usually just pay and say something like "you pay the next one" or something, and not really care if she does or not.

67. Posted by twinsing (Budding Member 38 posts) 8y

I always insist on paying my share and never let guys buy me drinks. Sometimes, i don't know if that obligates you or show interest or whatever so I just refuse. And someone i was seeing told me "All a guy wants is to take care of a girl, so stop being a fuss".

haanyway, if people INSIST, what is one supposed to do but enjoy the freebees.

68. Posted by james (Travel Guru 4136 posts) 8y

Quoting kombizz

I reckon you lost the point.
I wanted to take her to a Persian Restaurant with reasonable price, and I wanted to pay the whole payment. Instead she suggested to to have a vegetarian one. I did not argue with her as I wanted to make a good impression. She took me to an expensive restuarant on top floor of a tall building.
Then I expected her to contribute part of the bill. That's all.

You should have said that you were dying for a steak and were scared of heights

69. Posted by kombizz (Full Member 1416 posts) 8y

Quoting Yeah

Quoting kombizz

Quoting opospa

I am RCA

I know Jason from RCA.
Jason is a real gentleman and always pays for his girlfriends.
He lives in Hong Kong and manages his father's business. Once he told me "if I invite a lady for a dinner, I should pay, because at the end of day I would like to share your bed with her. So always pay".
Unfortunately I disagree with him totally.
Some times I would like to go out with a young lady to be simply with her for fun, nothing more.
Anyhow I guess few people of RCA, like Jason spends more for only one thing!

I would disagree with Jason. I dont know how to say this without sounding like a douche bag, but i know my way with girls quite well.

I like to pay if i've known the girl for a while, but i never buy drinks for girls in bars or on first dates and such. Very few girls mind paying their share, and some girls just like the attention of getting men to buy them drinks in bars and such, and blows of the buyer as another insecure guy trying to pay for her to like him. And i dont see the point in spending money on girls you just met and dont know.

But there's a thin line between not paying for her and coming of as just cheap. If there's a five dollar bill i usually just pay and say something like "you pay the next one" or something, and not really care if she does or not.

I can not understand the problem with drinks?
If you are happy to pay for her food, so why don't you pay for her drinks.
I am sure you are a nice gentleman and would not like her to be drunk in order to get advantage from her!

If I had that $5, then I go and buy a nice choki ice cream and eat it by myself.
Sorry some times I am selfish !! LOL

70. Posted by kombizz (Full Member 1416 posts) 8y

Quoting twinsing

I always insist on paying my share and never let guys buy me drinks. Sometimes, i don't know if that obligates you or show interest or whatever so I just refuse. And someone i was seeing told me "All a guy wants is to take care of a girl, so stop being a fuss".

haanyway, if people INSIST, what is one supposed to do but enjoy the freebees.

I reckon you are a mature young lady who loves to stand on your feet.
Unfortunately the Persian young ladies, specially the pretty ones, would like to be pampered by a man from the point of everything.
Even if they have more money in their purse than their men's partners, prefer not to spend!!

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