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1. Posted by Yeah (Budding Member 67 posts) 6y

Ok. Hot topic. Many opinions about this:
Sex in dormitories. You ever done it? Does it bother you when people are having sex in the bed next to you?
Im a bit embarrased, but i have to admit i do it every now and then when travelling. Its not the ideal place for sex, but when you meet a cute girl and you got nowhere else to go... what do you do?
Took some months of travelling before i got comfortable enough to do it, and in the beginning i found it weird trying to sleep with people screwing in the bed over you. Now it really dont bother me anymore, it's a part of staying in lively hostels. Any good stories to share? I only got one with an irish guy. He was so drunk that he fell from the top of a bunk bed while having sex, the fall didnt wake him up and he fell aslep naked on the floor. The best part was that the girl didnt know what to do and just laid there blushing. The guy woke up the next morning, the girl was gone and he had no idea how he got there. We had pictures to show though. He wasnt proud.
And oh. i never met a girl that could admit having had sex in a dormitory. Anyone here that can admit it?

To my defense i have to add that i wouldnt do it in a more "serious" hostel where people are getting up early.
And please dont hate me. Im normally a nice guy.

2. Posted by jadeverell (Respected Member 255 posts) 6y

I like this thread...interesting topic!

I was actually speaking to my girlfriend about this the other night and it doesn't look like i am going to get 'any' for a while i am travelling.......:(

We are doing a RTW trip in 4 months, and have decided to do the 'expensive' countries first and are due to fly to New York in June. As you can appreciate New York doesn't have the cheapest accommodation in the world, so are having to stay in hostels. We could stay in our own private room but it would cost us £30-£40 each for one night....(which i think is crazy). Therefore having to sacrifice my sex life for my wallet. (very difficult decision, i will tell you) as my girlfriend has told me "there is not a bloody chance i am doing it in a dorm with 10 pairs of eyes starring at me....no no no"
5 Days later though we fly to San Fran where accommodation is a little cheaper, so have booked us a private room for a few nights. Its is gonna feel like Christmas!

JD

3. Posted by twinsing (Budding Member 38 posts) 6y

on the story about the irish guy.

It was a little weird once this dude brought a girl back in a mixed hostel I was at. I was really sleepy and then the next morning he asked me if the noises *excited* me! WEIRD

I said I didn't hear any and switched rooms.

4. Posted by laurim (Respected Member 260 posts) 6y

I have to admit I've been enjoying a few fantasies about this subject in my planning for my Italy/Greece trip this summer. ;)
On the other hand, I don't want to be a problem for the other people in the room so I'll have to play it by ear whether to make this girl's fantasy come true, lol.

5. Posted by Dodger (Respected Member 860 posts) 6y

Yeah been there done that. Now Im older no one will want to go near me this trip anyway I'll just be one of those dirty old men.

Staying in one hostel the girl I was..um "dating" we use to go in the bathroom late at night for a knee trembler. It also actually works out really well in a bunk bed, you have to move very slowly, keeping very quiet. Makes for more intensity between you both, and keeps you clear of the wham bam thank you ma'am.

6. Posted by Dodger (Respected Member 860 posts) 6y

Quoting laurim

I have to admit I've been enjoying a few fantasies about this subject in my planning for my Italy/Greece trip this summer. ;)
On the other hand, I don't want to be a problem for the other people in the room so I'll have to play it by ear whether to make this girl's fantasy come true, lol.

Damn it! I knew I should have planned to be in Italy earlier

7. Posted by NantesFC (Respected Member 531 posts) 6y

Haha. I've never had the experience at a hostel, not yet at least. On my last trip though, I met a Dutch girl at a discotheque in Rimini, Italy. I was staying at the Sunshine Backpacker hostel and they don't allow anyone that's not staying there upstairs into the dorms. Luckily Rimini is on a beach (All of the beach chairs you'd normally pay for are free @ night).....if you catch my drift

One of my mates I met there, Niklas from Sweden also had a successful night at the discotheque with a girl from Bath, England. We both had sex with our 'catches' right beside one another on beach chairs hahaha...he made a couple of hand gestures and I remember that I kept giving the thumbs up sign Keep in mind, all 4 of us were piss drunk so it happens. I'm not too shy though so If I were to be walked in on in a dorm, I'd probably smile at the 'intruder' and keep going at it LOL!! I know of one guy who laid down a blanket in a laundry room and did the deed there.

8. Posted by Yeah (Budding Member 67 posts) 6y

I phnom penh a friend of mine and I shared a double room in a guest house. Unfortunately we had to share a huge double bed. I still quote him on this "are you fucking or trying to lull me back into sleep?", the he jumped in the shower. This was the next morning. He had come home later than us and hadnt even noticed that i had company.

9. Posted by ontheedge (Full Member 90 posts) 6y

ha ha i love this post!-im at the ritz hostel in melbourne, and if i dont 'get it' once a week its unusual!, iv done it in bathrooms, but mainly the bunk beds, i dont really worry about other people in the room, as im normally drunk, its all part of hostel life, great fun! its great in hostels, i would never meet as many women back home!, every week there are new women in the hostel, but theres loads of competition, we call it bed hopping!-iv found european women are sex mad! i thought it would be english women!-let the good times roll!

10. Posted by Yeah (Budding Member 67 posts) 6y

Quoting ontheedge

ha ha i love this post!-im at the ritz hostel in melbourne, and if i dont 'get it' once a week its unusual!, iv done it in bathrooms, but mainly the bunk beds, i dont really worry about other people in the room, as im normally drunk, its all part of hostel life, great fun! its great in hostels, i would never meet as many women back home!, every week there are new women in the hostel, but theres loads of competition, we call it bed hopping!-iv found european women are sex mad! i thought it would be english women!-let the good times roll!

Think it must just be some women when travelling.
I found south east asia to be great. As one girl i met put it "the male travellers goes after the locals and the asian men dont find us attractive". Dont know if its true or not, but ive heard several girls say they have had the same experience.