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What To Give/What not to Give...??? Poor Children in India

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1. Posted by si403 (Full Member 130 posts) 9y Star this if you like it!

Hi, I am going to India and have thought about taking old clothes etc to give to the poor if I have enough room in my pack.. Im sure ill have some room.

What things have you found they appreciate..? I hear they like pens/pencils etc but in your experience what do they seems most enjoyed as a gift..?

Thians for any help.

2. Posted by bwiiian (Travel Guru 769 posts) 9y Star this if you like it!

I haven't been to India, but I am sure the people there are the same as in other parts of the world I have been to where there is a lot of poverty. I always carry food in small packets with me wherever I go, for example biscuits are good and food is always appreciated. the children of course will always like sweets too, so carry a few sweets and biscuits and also perhaps offer to buy some food from one of the street stalls if you see a needy adult. This way you will be helping both the needy adult and the street vendor.

3. Posted by Degolasse (Travel Guru 823 posts) 9y Star this if you like it!

Please don't go giving sweets, food, clothes or whatever to children on the street. When they see Westerns, who in comparison are stinking rich, handing out freebies it actually encourages them to beg. You see it all over the world were parents make their kids beg to tourists because that's where the big money is. Wanting to donate money or necessities to those less fortunate is absolutely commendable and a great way to give back to the countries you visit. But please give to local charity organizations who know where the money is needed and can use it appropriately. I think giving change to beggers on the street is ok, as it's seems very much a part of their culture to do so in India. But, find out what is an appropriate amount (the same as the locals) and don't give more just because are a rich tourists, which again encourages them to see begging to tourists as a job option.

4. Posted by Archieq (Inactive 6 posts) 9y Star this if you like it!

Good that you want to help the needy.

First - when you change money or take out money at the ATM, change into a bundle of 10 rupees. Very useful. (approx 1/5 of a dollar).

Beggar children - dont give more than one 10 rupee note.

Enjoy your trip.

5. Posted by bwiiian (Travel Guru 769 posts) 9y Star this if you like it!

Quoting Degolasse

Please don't go giving sweets, food, clothes or whatever to children on the street. When they see Westerns, who in comparison are stinking rich, handing out freebies it actually encourages them to beg. You see it all over the world were parents make their kids beg to tourists because that's where the big money is. Wanting to donate money or necessities to those less fortunate is absolutely commendable and a great way to give back to the countries you visit. But please give to local charity organizations who know where the money is needed and can use it appropriately. I think giving change to beggers on the street is ok, as it's seems very much a part of their culture to do so in India. But, find out what is an appropriate amount (the same as the locals) and don't give more just because are a rich tourists, which again encourages them to see begging to tourists as a job option.

Unfortunately begging in very poor countries IS a job option as there are no other options! Remember there is no free schooling and benefits in most of these countries so begging is the only option. It is up to governments to sort out the poverty of a country, not tourists, so if you see people who are genuinely in need then please DO give to them. The long term option of giving to a charity is obviously a very good one but it won't feed that kids belly that day! Giving food is a great thing to do. Don't give money as they will probably never see that money again as they will have to give it to a ringleader, but with food they can eat it straight away and they will be genuinely thankful to you for that.

6. Posted by Paul3879 (Respected Member 212 posts) 9y Star this if you like it!

I totally agree with post 5! Don't give anything apart from food. Most children work for someone else and the money will do them no good. Clothes area waste of time and room in your pack. If you have no food and want to give something then buy off the street vendors and share your food. Try not to come across as a rich tourist, try to come across as a friend.

7. Posted by baxter1495 (Inactive 6 posts) 9y Star this if you like it!

Keep in mind also, that children who receive money from Westerners on the street may unfortunately have it stolen from them as soon as they round the corner. It may be safer for the child to receive food rather than money.

Have a good trip!

8. Posted by EllenW (First Time Poster 1 posts) 32w Star this if you like it!

DON'T give out money. Period. Just don't do it. You're not helping them one bit. Many many are part of the begging mafia. I have seen a beggar girl open an envelope filled with wads of rupees to add the rupees a young boy handed her. They won't even see a small percentage of it.

If you feel you must give carry around apples, oranges and cookies or crackers. Anything packaged, open it in front of them and give it to them. Otherwise it can (and will) be sold back to the shops.

Pencils are only 1 rupee here. I give kids chocolates. I don't ever give to beggars, not even kids. I save my stuff to give out to kids in the slums. They are all over and it's easy to hand out stuff. Just don't go up to unknown slum dwellers and start handing out stuff other than chocolates. Give them chocolates 2 or 3x so they'll know you then do it.

Save all your shampoo, conditioner, moisturizer etc from the hotels. If you don't use it, AFTER you get to know some poor ppl then hand it out. For example if there is a slum in the area go there and give candy. Do this 2 or 3x so they recognize your face. Then hand it out. Be prepared for many ppl to be shoving and asking for money. Best to learn "paise nahi hai" (no money) before even going to India.

[ Edit: Edited on 07-Jan-2017, at 21:44 by EllenW ]

9. Posted by OldPro (Inactive 400 posts) 31w Star this if you like it!

The same things as you give to poor children at home.

10. Posted by ADAMYAMEY (Respected Member 39 posts) 31w Star this if you like it!

When we visited Bijapur in Northern Karnataka, kids wanted pens, especially ballpoints or biros. More significantly they just wanted to chat.