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11. Posted by bentivogli (Travel Guru 2398 posts) 8y Star this if you like it!

While most people will really appreciate you trying to speak their tongue, expect to be answered in English. At least in the Netherlands, this is not because people are so keen to practice their English (we get plenty opportunity for that), but because they don't want you to make an effort (and also because they feel uncomfortable having their own language mangled by your feeble attempts :)).

This goes to the point where foreigners complain that it is impossible to learn Dutch, because the Dutch refuse to speak it with them...

12. Posted by miriamberg (First Time Poster 1 posts) 8y Star this if you like it!

I have the good fortune speaking German, as well as having a good working knowledge of French (I grew up in Canada, it was mandatory at my school), and have travelled in both countries (and in the rest of Europe as well). From my experience, many Europeans speak two languages (often more) and most (under 50's) will be able to communicate with you in English, especially in Germany (remember that the US military was stationed all over the country for almost 25 years after the war). People in France are a little more resistant to speaking English. But even there, people love to see foreigners making an effort to embrace local customs and that includes speaking the language. When all else fails, an open attitude and friendly, courteous approach will get you farther than any language course. Traveling from North America to Europe is not so crazy that you will feel like you're on a different planet. The best thing to do is to remain flexible and adjust your behavior towards others if they seem unreceptive towards you. Relax and enjoy yourself. Most importantly, don't take it personally if someone gives you the brush-off. Not everyone has had a positive (or any, if you're traveling to small villages) experience with foreigners.

13. Posted by galka_mak (Full Member 169 posts) 8y Star this if you like it!

Pretend to be a Canadian? :):):) You really made me laugh... If you're not planning to stay on the road with a poster "I hate French" I don't think that you will have any troubles - from anywhere you come. In all countries behave as you would like people to behave with you - and everything will be just great.
As for the languages - you are lucky to have 2 months there - so take it as a perfect chance to study something, the possibility for which lot of people pay money for. As for me if I even don't know the language I'm always catching a few words in first couple of days there, anyway I like studying languages so maybe it's right for me.
If you're going only with English - definitely be ready to use your hands and mimics for conversations in French province - even not to see the English menus in the restaurants... (if you manage to find the restaurant amoung brasseries, patisseries and bistros :):):) ). But I think it's quite normal - you're the guest - try to be polite :)

14. Posted by Redpaddy (Inactive 1004 posts) 8y Star this if you like it!

As just about everyone has said here, learn a few words in both languages. After all, you wouldn't like it if a foreigner walked up to you in the USA and spoke to you entirely in their language, would you?? Of course not. Just the basics such as please, thank you, I can't speak French/German - sorry, little things like that are so much appreciated. I pride myself that I can say please, thank you, excuse me and I don't understand - in about 40 languages. Well worth learning and the locals will be so impressed that you're giving it a go.

15. Posted by Redpaddy (Inactive 1004 posts) 8y Star this if you like it!

As for pretending to be Canadian?? Whatever for?? Just be you.

16. Posted by bwiiian (Travel Guru 769 posts) 8y Star this if you like it!

Definitely learn some French. Some areas of France pride themselves on not speaking a word of English. Some people in some areas of France don't even speak French (Bretagne for example)! You will definitely get far more respect if you at least try to speak the language.

17. Posted by bertles86 (Inactive 108 posts) 8y Star this if you like it!

you try speaking English to Parisians, and see what happens! Parisians really don't appreciate people swanning into their city and speaking English all the time. Just a few words of French it'll go along way.

18. Posted by legringo (Budding Member 2 posts) 8y Star this if you like it!

French people consider as incorrect people who speak to them directly in English. So try to learn some basic words like "Bonjour", "Excusez-moi" or "Merci" and believe me, french people will be charming and will try to help you, even if you don't speak french and they don't speak english;).


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