Hi BoomBoomWo
I second Magykal1 on both points. Most west European cities are really save as long as you use your common sens. Especially at night avoid the small alleys.
To get the feel of a certain city you should stay there at least 3 days and you have to take travel time in your mind. From your list I would recommend you to visit Amsterdam, Vienna or Berlin and Rome if you want to get 3 really different cities.
In Amsterdam there are not many specific sights to go to but I love the vibe there. You can visit the Anne Frank and ´Rijksmuseum´ , walk through the streets of the areas ´Jordaan´ and ´de Pijp´ which are the old folk neighbourhoods. Visit the Vondelpark if the weather is nice to just sit down and look at the big variety of people walking by. The markets ´Albert Cuyp´ and ´Waterlooplein´ are perfect for a stroll and to buy (second hand) cloths and antiques.
Rome is, of course, the perfect place for ancient culture. Visit the Colloseum and Forum Romanum. Climb into the tower of St. Peter church. You can visit the vatican museum but remember that this is very big and so will take up most of your day. There are plenty of churches and other buildings all over the city. Piazza Navona is perfect to go to in the evening for a bite to eat and to check out the fountains. Go to the Spanish stairs in the evening although they are not anymore what they used to be (occupied with young, often drunk, people). If you want to see something special go to the Santa Maria della Concezione. Underneath this church you will find an area decorated with the bones of the monks who died there. some of the skeletons are still intact or even wearing there robes other are taken apart and used to make wall decoration or lampshades etc. There is too much to see in this city to name it all.
For a more modern touch you can go to Berlin. The city might seem a bit ´grey´ at first but it has a great vibe. When you are at Brandenburger Tor don´t forget to walk behind it to the left and visit the monument for jews who died in the WW II, it is amazing. You can do tours that show you important spots in the city during Hitlers regime and Berlin Wall area. If you want to go to an underground party go to Ostbahnhof, I loved the reggae club in that area even though reggae is not my favourite music, just the vibe was perfect.
OHannemarie
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