being the ever avaiable type sometimes i find myself in situations that i know i should not be in ... UNCOMFORTABLE..but i commit and go overboard in my extened hand to help..i mean all sincerity to help, but i land up in inconviniencing myself in the bargain..and loose myown time of self proctive use..i still want to help but yet like to be more selfish towards me..yet cannot seem to do it ..going out of the way all the time...any as to help and yet find time for myself..
I'm not really 100% sure about what kind of situation you mean but never feel bad about stopping yourself from being screwed over. If someone is taking advantage of your good nature, walk away. Dignity is important.
thanks joe, but the good heart overrules the succer syndrome.. following the deed..
hey i understand-the nicer you are and the more willing you are to do things for people you get it all thrown back in your face-i tell ya there's a fine line between laid back and MUG, i swear i walk around with MUG written on my forehead but not so much anymore-no more nice lil Jas! you need a different perspective on life, do things to suit yourself-that way you'll have a (hopefully) happy life of your own! obviously you dont want to appear rude and inconciderate but once you find a happy medium-your sorted!
so i say look after number 1 and live a happy lil life! anyone hopping aboard!
ahoy captain lil j..
lower the gangway ..i want on board...tough is whats going to be,,,,
Look after number 1, but be nice to other people on the trip of life!
come on then everyone... who's in...i know i am! yipeeeeeeeeeeeee!
Agreed. Number one is important. But why travel the roads alone? Beside if you think about, why are people nice? Because deep down it feels good. So in a way, in a form of being selfish. Think about it.
nice to have you aboard marc! the more the merrier i say! yeh it does feel good to be nice so long as the appreciation is there!
thanks guys ..i feel nice already with this much support... i can become an Alexandra..