Would you want a despedida party or a farewell dinner before you leave a town or city that you have lived for more than a year?
I've been to some of these goobye dinner or night out in the bar with friends and aquaintances. And I've learned not feel bad, saying goobye, especially if the person is not as beautiful as my best friends, that left ages ago.
I plan to have my own goodbye dinner... trouble is, I dont belong to a clique or some sort. I just plan to invite people that "I like" and they may not even know each other. Its in a restaurant, so that would casual and drama free. I have had my "low profile" exits and I do not want an entourage, whenever I hit the bus stations. But that is probably why I keep coming back...
I need to hate my base, and find someplace new... I want a party. But I'm a bit worried that this would only give me the illussion that I belong here or that I will MISS some people, so badly, I will subconsciously ruin my chances of finding a new city, just so I can make my return to paradise Vol. 1-10.
I am travelling next week, but I haven't decided which city. For now, its an island called Hainan vs. Vietnam.