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Older traveller, 31 to Oz solo - how easy to make friends?

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11. Posted by Tracy2011 (Budding Member 71 posts) 5y

Hi all,

I'm 31 and also going to Oz on a WHV, in September. I really hope I'm not classed as "old" am I?! haha

I went travelling to Latin America last year with a tour group and I was the oldest, the average age was about 19. It didn't really make a difference, apart from the odd joke at my expense (like "Tracy - how was clubbing in the 80's???!) I also later joined another tour group and was the youngest and felt a bit immature to be honest! So it can go both ways! Age is just a state of mind I guess.

Totally agree with Pablo79, as you can't get a WHV after 30, I thought why not, it's the only chance I will have for the rest of my life. I bet there are plenty of older travellers who have missed the boat and feel like us 'young uns' are lucky!!

As for jobs, we're likely to have more work/life experience to bring to the table than some younger travellers, may well work in our favour.

12. Posted by jackflora (Budding Member 3 posts) 5y

Hey , Jo,
don't worry, you share your experiences like this, and develop friends. :):):)

thank you

13. Posted by J0sephine (Budding Member 70 posts) 5y

@ tom
cool - yeah would be good if we could meet up perhaps - I will look at that package with the work and travel company - am thinking of doing something like that anyway as I am pretty clueless - esp on my own!


maybe we could stay in touch too and meet up - would be cool to meet someone my age!

you all sound so confident though - where i am not :(

thanks for your help

14. Posted by natalied (Budding Member 14 posts) 5y

i really wouldnt worry im 25 and age wouldnt make any difference to me meeting ppl whether they were a lot older or really young,...age is only a number! xxx

15. Posted by Tracy2011 (Budding Member 71 posts) 5y

Yeah sure, we should stay in touch, I'm starting in Cairns mid Sept then am staying in Sydney for Xmas/New Year, but apart from that I don't have any set plans. Going to go with the flow!

I've been travelling on my own a few times before so I guess confidence grows, but there are things I'm scared of believe me, esp as I'm giving up my job/house etc to go on this trip! And as the saying goes - "It's not brave if you're not scared!"

16. Posted by J0sephine (Budding Member 70 posts) 5y

Brilliant I would like to have made a few friends before I go out there.

The date I said on my visa app (which I have just applied for, ahh!)

do I have to stIck rigid to that date do u know?

I'm going to try for a sabbatical from work but if not then I'll just leave x

17. Posted by Tracy2011 (Budding Member 71 posts) 5y

Nah, I think they just ask for an arrival date so they have a vague idea of possible arrival numbers. The date you stated doesnt appear anywhere on the visa, only your latest possible arrival date. I put June on my application but decided to give myself a few more months to save up!

18. Posted by J0sephine (Budding Member 70 posts) 5y

Well it was granted within the hour!

Also it asked to put what kind of work.

I said other as it depends what kind of work I get!!

Wish I could save but I don't really earn enough!

Excited now but so much to do!

Hope I find some people to hang with x

19. Posted by carriem (Budding Member 11 posts) 5y

I'm 32 and heading to New Zealand in May for a year's work visa. I had this concern as well but figured it wasn't a big deal. Hey, there's no age limit to exploring! Have a great time!

20. Posted by J0sephine (Budding Member 70 posts) 5y

It's still scary tho.

I suppose I just think of travellers as young and in their teens or twentys :)