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11. Posted by MattXIII (Full Member 272 posts) 11y

Shortish, cute, someone who'll make me laugh out loud at least once a day, a woman who has a bit of "fire and adventure" in them. She's gotta be vaguely pretty, have gorgeous eyes (most important part), able to look after herself, someone who can curb my hugely jealous streak, be a good cook, and wants the same things out of life that i do.

12. Posted by lil j (Travel Guru 1303 posts) 11y

oops..i had a phase of always saying i didn't mind or wasn't bothered-but this is just how laid back i am-i think it used to bug my ex-but i mean i have a voice if i wasn't happy i would say!! lol!

oh those comments made me laugh!

As Eve said we like our men to be MEN!!!

I think blokess just want someone to have a good shag with-which is understandable from a blokes point of view-and someone who is just not whiney-oh i can't stand couples like that-when they are stuck at the hip 24/7-grrrrr

You know what i think i used to be a bloke in a previous life!!-so wierd how i can understand them where as many of my female mates can't-this is scary and a bit weird!-well we al know i'm weird, lol!-oh and ramble...

13. Posted by james (Travel Guru 4136 posts) 11y

Quoting lil j

I think blokess just want someone to have a good shag with-which is understandable from a blokes point of view-and someone who is just not whiney

I'm glad you understand lil j!

I like a woman that doesn't require you to be on her leash; one that doesn't want to stop you doing the things you did before you met her. One that doesn't say "so what are we going to do today" as though I'm her personal entertainment co-ordinator.

I like women whose physical attractiveness doesn't hit you straight away; a nice mixture of sex appeal, beauty and cuteness - but maybe not too much of either.

I like women who are confident, but not overly so; who have an opinion, but who also realise that a difference of opinion is not a reason to compete.

I don't like women that smoke.

14. Posted by Gelli (Travel Guru 2457 posts) 11y

men only want "SEX" !!!

Absolutely not. We also want her family to own a brewey, or at least a chain of bars/pubs.

15. Posted by daveh (Travel Guru 1027 posts) 11y

Absolutely not. We also want her family to own a brewey, or at least a chain of bars/pubs.[/quote]

A woman like this is every man's Holy Grail!!!!!!!!!!

16. Posted by Gelli (Travel Guru 2457 posts) 11y

Btw, as an aside - true story - i think i've proved that the perfect girl exists. A guy who left shortly before i joined work was back around a couple of weeks ago to say hello to everybody, and i think he's found her. Her father is relevant in the absolut company hierarchy, and her mom is hugely successful in something else. She's highly qualified at whatever it was she does - can't remember, but it was something impressive sounding, who used to be an underwear model in her student days, and still does periodically. And (what made it for me) last winter, she was taking days holiday to sit at home drinking beer and watching the African Nations Cup!!!!

He still can't (a) believe what he's stumbled across and (b) understand why she's with him!

17. Posted by MattXIII (Full Member 272 posts) 11y

Ah if only they owned the Shepard Neame brewery, im slightly drunk right now n'all funnily enough.

Lil'J it aint true. Men want sex, yup, but theres more to it than that. We want someone to wake up next to or someone to av a cuddle with, or someone to chat to. Sex is just a craving its not mandatory.

18. Posted by tway (Travel Guru 7273 posts) 11y

None of you have slagged women who pout. I thought that was up there as a #1 no-no!

I dated a guy who pouted once(we were 16, so age might play a factor here). It used to drive me crazy! "What's wrong?" "Nothing." "Really, what's wrong?" "Nothing!!" Then he'd sit in a corner all night.

19. Posted by lil j (Travel Guru 1303 posts) 11y

Quoting MattXIII

Ah if only they owned the Shepard Neame brewery, im slightly drunk right now n'all funnily enough.

Lil'J it aint true. Men want sex, yup, but theres more to it than that. We want someone to wake up next to or someone to av a cuddle with, or someone to chat to. Sex is just a craving its not mandatory.

haha! -about the brewery!!-perhaps that's where i'm going wrong, hmmm-i'll have to reconsider my career in retail then, lol!

men want sex-and it's a craving-oh yes-quite a strong craving ay!! well its natural aint it!-as long as its within reason!

Men do want someone to chat to-wow!-i find most men don't chat-even when its obvious there's something up-it drives me crazy-as it would to a guy when women mope and just say there's nothing wrong!-this is so frustrating and you just go around in circles.

Yes James-no-one ever owns anyone, of course you should both be able to do ALL the things you both want to do before you met-gosh this is where everyone goes wrong,i see so many people-that when they have broken up with a partner-particularly long term they start to really do a lot of stuff and do all the things that they 'couldn't' do (like it was forbidden) while they were with their partner!

20. Posted by Cupcake (Travel Guru 8468 posts) 11y

Add in the personl columns : SWF seeking woman with boat. Send picture of the boat. Owning a bar is a plus.
:)