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21. Posted by james (Travel Guru 4136 posts) 11y

Quoting thezenyen

James, you give the best advice! but note: what if he says "Oh! i always knew you felt the same way!!"

That's simple. Just say that you would love to go out with him once your genital itch problem resolves itself.

22. Posted by samsara_ (Travel Guru 5353 posts) 11y

LOL!!

this is great - i'll be able to ward off irritating men for the rest of my life at this rate.

23. Posted by Bruce85 (Budding Member 54 posts) 11y

Quoting kae

i did once -tell him i am lesbian.... while under the help of my best fren.
he is very suspicious in the beginning
anyway,it works. ;)

My last b/f ran away after watching me kiss one of my best friends! The bad thing was that I didn't want him to go!

Quoting james

That's simple. Just say that you would love to go out with him once your genital itch problem resolves itself.

  • rofl* With this one be careful, perhaps he has a cute friend you want to go out with!
24. Posted by Cupcake (Travel Guru 8468 posts) 11y

Actually the nicest way to do it is the 'I just don't feel that way about you...lets be friends' but everyone knows what a load of BS it is...and there will be hurt feelings anyway...Or the 'it's not you, it's me'...I wish someone, somewhere would have the guts to say "IT IS YOU!"
hehehe :)

25. Posted by Wocca (Inactive 3745 posts) 11y

You could try, "One of my old boyfriends has come just back, and I still have feelings for him"

26. Posted by Gelli (Travel Guru 2457 posts) 11y

I wish someone, somewhere would have the guts to say "IT IS YOU!"

Try it if you like. I've still got the lump to prove it's not always a good idea. Honesty is great in mnost situations, but sometimes you need to bend to truth to simply avoid retribution┬┤&/or being hunted down by her big brother and his gang.

27. Posted by Wocca (Inactive 3745 posts) 11y

And to avoid the tears ...

28. Posted by noemagosa (Full Member 355 posts) 11y

When a guy was getting annoying, I would start telling him about my hypotetical (sp?) boyfriend, how jealous and protective he can get... etc... Now that I'm married, I state abundantly and loud that my darlinnnggg is wonderful (which is true ;) ) ... But it doesn't always work...

Last chance, ignore him (not always possible) and be frank (not always possible either)... Well, then pray God to help you!

29. Posted by Gelli (Travel Guru 2457 posts) 11y

and be frank (not always possible either)

Be Frank? Interesting idea. And to be fair, pretending to be a cross dresser &/or going for the sex change is probably the quickest way to get rid of unwanted attention.

30. Posted by noemagosa (Full Member 355 posts) 11y

yeah, I realized it doesn't work together: ignore him and be frank... I suppose the other way around: first be frank, and if it doesn't work, then ignore him!...