staying with gf/bf while away?

Travel Forums General Talk staying with gf/bf while away?

1. Posted by andyt_uk (Budding Member 42 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

hey, im going to SE asia for a few months in Jan07, im going to be leaving behind a girlfriend, at uni, who i love to bits and want to stay together with while im away.Its gets me down thinking about how much im going to be missing her and whether we will end up staying together while im away. :(Any similar stories or some advice from you more wizend folk on how to deal with it????????????????? its quite a puzzler

cheers andy

2. Posted by tway (Travel Guru 7273 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

A few months? Surely that can't be too hard to wait... If you love her as much as you say you do, your relationship should be able to withstand, even grow, during your trip. I've been with my b/f 3 years now, and we've spent stints of 3, 6, even 7 months apart since we live so far away from each other. Missing someone isn't always bad - it's actually fantastic for realizing all the things you love about the other person, and exactly where you want to go next. It's certainly doable - you just have to want to do it. Good luck!

3. Posted by marlis (Travel Guru 1167 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

What about her???
Is she in love with you?
It looks to me that you are not sure about this.
Are you going away to find out for you self how much you love her?
to find out if she loves you as much?
why is she not going with you?
Many questions,you have to find the answer.
for sure the distance will help you to clear the mind,but maby not your haert.
(love makes blind,belief me it's true)
If she loves you, like you love her,then what the .....are a few month.
good luck,