where have all the good men gone?

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21. Posted by nykky (Full Member 76 posts) 14y Star this if you like it!

I totally agree with Shopgirl - it's not really that important is it? I mean, surely enjoying life, meeting new people and not taking life to seriously is more important than being a couple, purely for the sake of it?

We all love being with someone but why settle for 2nd best eh - hold out, be patient and keep smiling and your knight in shining armour will be there - one day, in the meantime get out there and have as much fun as possible cause once your all loved up and coupled up you'll look back & see it was worth the wait

I've been single for 3 yrs and have many times wondered why I always end up meeting men who are no good for me but that's life & it doesn't take me long to get over ... There is someone for everyone

22. Posted by Kiwiboy (Full Member 23 posts) 14y Star this if you like it!

I agree that most important thing in life is happyiness, whether it be a simple smile, to being in love. I love to smile, I love to be happy and to make people share that happiness It must sound that Im on drugs, if I was Id make a tidy profit in selling it. I have a passion to travel, and I have worked hard to be able to enjoy that passion, Ive travelled extensively and have meet some very interesting people, I have made many friends, found new loves. Im happy, be happy too, there is a lot of people out there, and there is more than one right person out there for all of us.
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23. Posted by babe967 (Full Member 98 posts) 14y Star this if you like it!

I to have asked the question,when will i meet mr right?
After spending the last 14 yrs on my own and raising my 2 children, i often get asked who is the latest man in your life ? lol. And when i repley no one, they are shocked.
The way i see it now, is i love my independance to do as i please,and to be able to travel until i decided to come home,and not have to answer to no man lol.
I,m in my 40's and have the heart and mind of a 30yr old
And it would be great if i meet someone while travelling,that way we do share a common intrest, if not well at least ive travelled and did alot of things others my age hav'nt.
Stay positive.
Be all you can while you can,and live your live to the max.

24. Posted by gizmo008 (Full Member 32 posts) 14y Star this if you like it!

Hi all,

I agree with the overall comments - if you can't be happy with yourself then you're not likely to be happy with someone else. But I think people have too many expectations of relationships now - they think a relationship will make then happier or solve all their problems and that's how people end up with the wrong person - then ultimately it ends and makes both of them unhappy and cynical like us lot!!! Ok I don't mean to sound bitter but I don't believe in happy ever after and one person for us all - I believe there is a 'mr right now' not a mr right (or miss right). Love is a wonderful thing but has to be worked at and it also means compromise. I'm not ready or willing to compromise my plans or my life for someone else - I want to see the world. Of course I want to share that with people but I'd like to share it with as many friends as I can......with maybe just the odd fling here and there lol. Do I sound like one of those scary feminists, I'm not really!!!


25. Posted by MaggieT (Budding Member 9 posts) 14y Star this if you like it!

Some wonderful words of wisdom here...... I quite agree. However, a small request for you Tikilou, when you find him, er... do you mind asking him if he's got a friend????


26. Posted by Mimi84 (Full Member 71 posts) 14y Star this if you like it!

sure will maggie

luv tiki

27. Posted by photobug (Budding Member 20 posts) 14y Star this if you like it!

ahh.... the eternal quest for answers to unanswerable questions that we always ask ourselves....

My reply won't be anything that people haven't said before, but since i've asked myself that same question too many times to count, i've found it's futile to do so. There's really only one thing to do: Just go with the flow

Life will bring all kinds of things your way. Just make the best of it or keep moving on.