Scared Shitless of Traveling...

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1. Posted by Isadora (Travel Guru 13926 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

It's time again for another Travel Unravelled Q&A inquiry. The rules of the game can be found under the question itself. We invite all to participate and really look forward to the replies. There is no better way to make a traveler a more informed one than contributing helpful information.


How do you deal with the 'first time jitters' of traveling? The General Talk forum sees a number of these questions. (We've just received a thank you for the help our members have given to another member who was reticent about travel a few years ago.) So, go for it - what are your thoughts on how to handle travel for the first time or even dealing with uncharted territory?


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2. Posted by mcphersonsammy (Budding Member 40 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

First time jitters... wow. First off, I go crazy researching about the place, where to go, what to eat, how to get to the places to visit. Even to the last minute, I research and verify everything especially if it's my first time to visit the place. Then I go crazy (really, I go crazy) preparing everything. I make a checklist of all the things I need. I check it everyday... what I already packed and what I still need to pack/buy. Lastly, I check my budget. I keep on doing that little accounting thing I do. I don't want to run short on cash while traveling so I make sure I really have MORE THAN ENOUGH money.

3. Posted by madpoet (Respected Member 415 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

Take it slow. Don't feel that, just because you are in China, for example, you have to eat Chinese food everyday. It's OK to go to McDonald's once in awhile. It's OK to stay home one day of the week and just read or watch TV at your hotel/hostel. Stay in touch with folks back home. And if you are travelling alone, try to befriend other travellers and/or locals that you can travel with and hang out with. That will make your trip more memorable and less lonely.

On the other hand, first-time travel is like swimming: sometimes you just have to jump in. After you've done some basic planning, just go. Get on the plane, make sure your tray is in the upright position, and enjoy your trip!

4. Posted by Supafemale (Budding Member 42 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

Realise that the scariest thing is making the decision to go...after that - it's not so scary! :)

5. Posted by Niels1303 (Full Member 131 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

I remember the first time I travelled alone, I was also pretty scared. Somehow I only imagined the worse things that could happen to me. But luckyly since more than 90% of the fears we have in life never come true and I experienced so many beautiful moments and met so many wonderful people while travelling alone, may fears quickly faded away. :) It is a process that take some time but the more you´ll travel, the more confident you´ll be and the more you´ll get addicted to it. ;)

Have a wonderful trip and don´t worry too much!


6. Posted by ipapa (First Time Poster 1 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

Scary... . Travelling alone is awesome. I think it would be like an adventure. Someday I might even try it.

7. Posted by tway (Travel Guru 7273 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

For my first solo trip, I picked a country where I knew the language and where the culture was--although different--at least familiar to me. I also planned the basics well: flight and hotel were booked far ahead. Then I got a good guide, read it, followed it a little, and then just went with my gut.

I left really excited more than nervous. I think the nerves came beforehand. The only thing you really have to do is do it! The difference between people who travel and people who don't is that the former just get up and go.

8. Posted by soupatrvlr (Respected Member 386 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

When I decided to travel around the world by myself, I started by researching everywhere I wanted to go. On top of that, I started doing things alone at home...going out to dinner, out to the movies, striking up conversations with strangers, saying hello with a smile to everyone I met...and in the city, they think you want something from them for just saying hi! But I made a concerted effort to get comfortable doing things by myself. Yeah, I was slightly terrified when I first left, but got over that rather quickly. I also made sure that no matter where I was going, I had a guide book with me to fall back on. Sometimes I used it, sometimes I didn't. When you're alone, you meet the most people, meet the most locals, and the flexibility lets you do whatever YOU want!

9. Posted by Q' (Travel Guru 1987 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

It might be a good trip, it might be a bad trip. You'll never know until it happens. Rather than worrying about it, I'd rather concentrate on getting there.....

10. Posted by gnolly (Budding Member 2 posts) 12y Star this if you like it!

For your first solo trip, be sure to go somewhere you know the language. Check the State Department website ( if you're going to a foreign country, and have phone numbers you can call if you have any problems. My advice: go someplace safe (hint: it ain't Mexico!) for your first few trips, until you feel comfortable globetrotting.

Enjoy the adventure!


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